I think I've shared this info to much but I am horrible at dating. However, I do like to help others so I hate to share this eHarmony list of best questions to ask on a first date with you. I hope it helps. The older we get the harding dating has gotten...or is it just me? Anyway, here's the list of best questions....
1.) "What makes you laugh the most?" According to countless surveys, one of the most common things people are looking for is a good sense of humor. But obviously not everyone finds the same things funny. So ask your date what makes THEM laugh the most. It is sarcasm? Being corny? Dirty jokes? What a person finds funny says a lot about their personality and perspective on life . . . AND it lets you know how far you can push the boundaries.
2.) "What's your passion?" If they can't name ANYTHING they're passionate about, it's kind of a red flag. And if they DO have a passion, it gives you a good opportunity to ask follow-up questions.
3.) "Is there something you're working toward right now?" This one sounds a LOT like a job interview, so only go there if you sense there IS something they want to do, and feel passionate about. The idea is to gauge how motivated your date is.
4.) "What do your Saturdays usually look like?" How someone uses their free time says a LOT about them. Like if they work on their day off, they might be highly career-oriented . . . or maybe a workaholic.
